Wednesday, January 22, 2014

The End

Our appointment did not go well today...we lost the baby.  It has no heartbeat and will be removed hopefully tomorrow.

This is one of those times where I really wish everyone would just know and no one would really talk to me about it, so I'm hoping that if you see this you will share the news with anyone who might've known, so I can avoid people who don't know accidentally asking me how it is going.  I'll post this to my regular Facebook page too.

In the meantime, I am going to go cuddle with my husband.  He and I will be OK, but it sucks.

12 comments:

  1. Oh Sharon. Crying for you both, my love. It's incomprehensibly unfair.

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  2. goddammit. we did this (ie pregnancy resulting from IVF, no heartbeat at 6 weeks, also at UCSF) in August. fuck shit hell. so sorry.

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  3. So sorry Sharon. Thinking of you.

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  4. Hi. This is the first time I have ever written on any message board but your story really moved me. I've been following you from 5dp3dt and rooting for you. I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. 2 months ago I lost identical twins at twelve weeks after 7 rounds of clomid 3 iuis and 2 IVF cycles. I am currently in my 2ww after trying again. It is so difficult to pick yourself back up. I am not a big sharer of my thoughts and emotions but if in a while when you feel ready to try again you could know how much support you have from people you will probably never meet, just maybe you will find the strength for the next cycle. Looking forward to reading happier posts very soon. Tami

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  5. sending you lots of love and mucho hugs. So sorry to hear. :(

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  6. I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs.

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  7. I have no words of comfort because there just are not "right words." I wish life was fair because there is nothing fair about infertility. Thinking about you. *HUG*

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  8. seriously, not, fair.
    I read this a couple days after you posted it and have just been lost for words. I am just so sorry

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  9. Dear Sharon , sending hugs ...i am so sorry , I have been following your blog from Kveller and had my fingers crossed for you ..

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